In this article, you will learn how to develop a never give up attitude. Here, I will be sharing typical ways to be unstoppable in your life.
You might have tried so many things in your life to make it better by achieving some milestones. But, when the journey becomes harder, even after trying every possible resource and 100% potential, you often quit.
Then you decided something else, and the same thing happens again and you lose hope and give up.
You set a new goal one more time and set an action plan and when it comes to showing up stronger efforts; you think it is not for you, and you change the goal and give up.
You know what?
“If it were easy everyone would do it” – Unknown
This happens with most of us, we do not get often what we want. But, it doesn’t mean we will quit and accept what life has to offer us. No, this is not right. If you have a dream, you got to work for it.
Trust me, you have all the potential to achieve what you want, the only condition is your target should be realistic.
Do you know, an unfortunate man is someone who accepts what life has to offer him. On the other hand, the fortunate man is someone who changes everything with his efforts and asks life to offer what he wants.
So, if it is hard to do something, make your mindset stronger, and push through until you get it done.
Know Your Aim And Stay Committed
Set your goals, know what it is you want to do in the first place. Don’t make too many alternatives things to archive, stick to a single goal for one time. Set a goal that is good for you, as per your strength, passion, and profitability.
Make a strong commitment to achieving what you’ve decided to, and stick to it. Don’t think about other possible things, just stay focused on that one goal you have set for yourself. Make one certain way and walk through it with your unshaken concentration. Because when you also think about alternatives in your life you often make a switch if the first one requires more effort.
Let me elaborate with a simple example when you go shopping and a salesman show you to many alternatives to the stuff you are going to buy. At that time you get confused and most of the time feel regret with your purchase or you leave the shop without making the purchase. The same goes for your goals, if you give to many alternatives to your brain, it will frequently switch among them or ask you to quit.
Therefore, set a goal with a clear “why”, and stick to it until you get it right. Change the strategy and develop new skills but never give up on your goals.
You can read another article on goal setting, Goal Setting: Stick To 1 Goal Until You Achieve It
Don’t Think Too Much, Start Action
People often lose their whole energy when thinking and analyzing the things they can do. They often fear making mistakes, people’s judgment, fear of failure, and so on. Just because of thinking too much they never start and their ideas end with ending their life.
It is not good giving too many reasons that why can’t you start. If you have already decided something by putting lots of effort, then just start it. You will get more resources and skills on the way of doing it.
Don’t take too much time in re-analyzing your decisions. Because everything looks difficult until we will do it.
Believe That You Can Do It
This is the most important factor, if you don’t believe in you, nothing can be done. If you have decided to do something unusual in your life, and you believe in you without having a single doubt, there is no-one who can stop you from achieving it.
“He who says he can, and who he says he can’t are both right.” – Confucius
Having self-doubt will break you. When you have no belief in you, you often give up even in front of a small obstacle.
Have A Burning Desire
Once you have set the goal and decides what you want to do, do it, no matter what. Consider doing it as important as breathing. Get emotionally connected to your goals. See what changes there will be if you will achieve them. Your emotion will always push you up and fill up every possible power inside you.
Know your responsibilities for others. Know how your success can change their lives who are dependent on you. Like, your parents, siblings, spouse, and kids. Keep in mind, if some other people rely on you. Have a desire to make their life better.
Give them hope that you will pursue your goals to ease their pains and to fulfil their dreams. Then, move on with the mindset that if not for you, but for them, you have to succeed.
Self-discipline is the key to success. Because living a successful life is not that easy man. You have to be aware that how you are spending your time doing significant things.
You can’t go with the push of the crowd. It is a must to deliberately direct your actions and strategies with proper use of your time.
You can’t say you have put your 100% one time and now it should come with better results. No man, it is not that simple. If it were really 100%, you would have won the game. But, it was 100% as per your thinking not as per the action required to that particular work. There must be something missing. Identify that missing point and push harder again.
Wake up again with a winning mindset, and do as hard as it asks to get your job done. Don’t let your bad habit control your right actions Like procrastination, laziness, addiction to distractions, and so on.
Remember, a better life only asks for one thing, that is self-discipline. For instance, a healthy body asks for good foods and exercise. A healthy mind asks for meditation. A rich life wants to invest your money on the right things. And that all comes from self-discipline.
It is correctly said;
“A life without self- discipline is an insane life.”
Persist: Never Give Up
Yes, we often strive for our goals and do our best as per the capability we have. But, when it seems hard and we need to put some more effort, we give up.
Even after putting our best with a lot of struggle, pain, and setbacks when it breaks up, we often quit, right?
You know what, your life is strengthening you with these challenges. Now, if you give up, these difficulties will break you, and if you persist with them becoming stronger, the same difficulty will make your life and you will get the experience to lead.
You will always have an option to persist when there are setbacks. If you do so, you will reap the fruit of success, and if you don’t you will switch to another idea to follow. But keep in mind that another idea will also meet setbacks before reaching giving you the fruit of success. So, why don’t you persist in the first one?
A person, who has a winning mindset will come again and try one more time. And, he will persist until he gets the job done.
Keep Strengthening Yourself
Never Give Up Don’t over commit, seeing other people that if he or she can do something, so you can. When deciding something, know your pain point and strength both. This will help you to set the right goals, and then by and by raising the bar for your big goals.
It doesn’t mean you are not capable of doing something but if you are not skilled enough to do certain things, you have to gain the skillset and resources to that particular thing first. So, keep becoming the better version of yourself day by day.
Learn from your experiences, learn from like-minded people, learn from books, and so on. To reach the peak of success you need to polish your skills consistently.
Focus What You Can Not What You Can’t
Direct your energy to the right things. Don’t waste it on unnecessary things, because when it comes time to do the right things which are important to do, you get tired.
Don’t focus on the things you don’t want, just redirect your whole energy on the possibility in your life.
As Tony Robbins says,
“Where the focus goes, energy flows.”
Stay away from distractions and don’t postpone the things for the next time. Don’t let negative emotion to detriment your action plan. Because when negativity comes, it starts breaking us, and we are not even able to utilize the available resources we already have.
Also, don’t ever express self-pity when you have nothing left. Put your all the energy together and try again. Know your uniqueness, you have something different to pursue your endeavours. Don’t get control by your thoughts, but control them.
You Need One More Shot To Hit The Target
Yes, you got it right. There will be setbacks, failures, and disappointments, but you got to go to achieve that you are committed to.
Develop your mind for perseverance, if you don’t do so deliberately, it will get addicted to losing and become fragile enough to quit often.
Sometimes, you might encounter a breath losing difficulty and decide that you’re done now. But, it would be totally opposite and you are about to reach the destination.
Share Your Goals And Deadlines
Tell people about your goals, share the deadline with them, especially with your haters. When you become accountable to someone, you won’t give up.
You become emotionally stronger, that if you quit they will be happy and make fun of you and your efforts. This way you will keep pushing till the success.
Failure Is Not A Fatal
Learn to accept failure. Analyze it, try another strategy, and bounce back with more enthusiasm. Yes, it is true that you will not always get fruitful results, but don’t be afraid of failure.
Yes, you will get lots of problems throughout your journey when you are doing something important enough. You will not get desired results even after putting your everything. It might come to losing hope.
But get up one more time and think, if you quit today what would you start next. When it comes to trying something else, you have to re-start at the bottom again. So, don’t give up. Take your half walked journey forward.
Don’t stop putting your efforts because you failed sometimes. Take learning from your last failure, do an observation of what went wrong, and get back up with greater efforts.
“Don’t fear failure, but fear of not trying. Get up execute your plans.”
There are multiple failures before you reach success. So, don’t quit until you are alive and conscious. Failure is a normal thing, it gives you a unique experience and makes you stronger to the journey of success.
“Never give up. Today is hard, tomorrow will be worse, but the day after tomorrow will be sunshine.”
– Jack Ma
Life will always challenge you with lots of problems and ask you to go through those problems to reach the destiny of success. So, learn to handle temporary failures on the way of success.
Treat Setbacks As a Competitor
Yes, this gives me great motivation to move on when I consider all the setbacks as a competitor coming on my way. Because whenever I hit the ground with difficulties, I start putting bigger efforts beating them like an enemy. The same way you can do.
Whatever your problems are on the way of your success, consider them your competitor and put your one hundred percent to beat them. When there will be setbacks, show up the perseverance, when it comes to hit the ground, bounce back challenge these setbacks with your never quitting mindset, and more determination.
Obstacles are temporary, and most of the time a little more focus and energy requires to overcome them. So, don’t get overwhelmed when you are not getting results as per the efforts you are putting. Difficulties simply take some more hard work and make us better asking for a new skill set and better strategy.
Say No To Naysayers
“Someone’s opinion of you does not have to become your reality.”
– Les Brown
Yes, there will be people around you who will always try to pull you down. There are some people who will say you can’t do certain things. They will deliberately ask to give up by putting too many excuses and say try something else.
Don’t ever listen to these naysayers. If you believe in you, no one has the right to assume your success. Stay away from those negative people. If you can’t stay away from them physically, don’t take their advice, just hear and ignore them.
Some other people, who might have the right intentions for you and want to see you succeed. But, it might happen that they don’t know what you are doing. So, don’t take advice from those people as well.
Most of the time it is our loved once, unknowingly pull us back without even knowing what is right or wrong for us. They just say it with the lack of experience in that field and assume that if they haven’t tried it, so can’t you.
Moreover, say to yourself that you will prove them wrong and start putting efforts doubling determination, energy, and hard work with a better strategy.
Have Patience- Never Give Up
You might have heard, success doesn’t come overnight. That’s true! It takes time to reach a breakthrough. Before giving up your dreams, it is right to give some more time. It might take some more time to germinate the seed you saw. So, have patience, don’t give up it might be too early.
It takes time for people to have trust in you and your product and services. It takes time for personal branding and to establish as a brand in the market. You might need some more people to go with your idea, it takes time for them to have faith in you.
Nobody, born with all the required resources to execute the plan, it takes time to find the right resources. You will not get the intended results to implement the knowledge you have, it will take time to understand the things and acquire new skills to apply.
So, don’t quit. It might be too early because it takes some time to get mastery and execute your expertise the way you want.
Success is sometimes like growing Chinese bamboo trees, it might take time. So, think one more time before giving up.
Keep Motivating Yourself
Use positive words for you, for your work. Feel good about you, about the skills you have and for the available resources and hope to pursue. Respond with positive words when people ask for you. Use the language of determination and focus. Because negative and poor words kill the hope of success and force you to quit.
Don’t think that you are not capable to pursue rather ask, how can you do and find the way to remove the obstacle on your way of success. Write down the challenge you are currently facing and ask yourself, “how can you solve them?”
In the end, I would say never stop believing yourself. Never lose hope for the better. If nobody believes in you, you have to believe. Because you are the one who is pursuing your dreams.
People who say you can’t, have even no clue that what you are doing. Stay open to learn and execute to be successful.
“Try one more time, never give up.”